Guest Post: Kim Suhr on Honoring Your Desire to Write

Kim Suhr is the director of Red Oak Writing in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. She organizes Saturday workshops on craft and leads Roundtable Critique Groups–in person and now (I love this) online. Let distance no longer be a barrier to joining a group! She is author, editor, and champion of other writers, helping them see the gift in their stories and encouraging them to pursue their dreams. Her guest post today does exactly that: she recognizes our tendency to downplay our work and offers insight for why we should (and how we can) honor our desire to write.

Can’t Afford a Writing Class? Maybe.

From time to time, people tell me they’d love to improve their writing, but they just can’t afford a class. Since I don’t have access to their bank accounts and spending habits, I have no way to know if this is true. But I do think that—in some cases—“not being able to afford it” is more akin to “not feeling justified in spending money on it.” And to those writers, I have one word to say: golf.

We all know people who play golf (or ski or cook or knit) with the verve of a professional despite the fact that they’ll never make a living at their passion. Still they continue to sink time and money into the activity just for the pleasure of it.

Imagine the following arguments against paying for a writing class translated into the golf scenario:

1. I don’t need a class. I’ll just get better by writing a LOT. Practice makes perfect, right?

DSC_0083Actually, there is much to like about this reasoning: the whole 10,000 hours to become an expert argument and all. Only thing is, if your golf stroke stinks, increasing the number of swings isn’t going to improve your game. In fact, it will probably get progressively worse or, at the very least, take a long time to get better. What will help—and in pretty short order—is an expert who can point out your dipped shoulder or the fact that your club face is open.

Same with writing. Ten thousand hours of point-of-view slips or ill-conceived plots will just make you better at bad writing. Best to get some instruction from someone who knows that they’re talking about. Then, the next 9,999 hours will be time well spent.

2. Why not just get a bunch of people together and help each other for free?

I like parts of this argument, too. You could get lucky and find some naturally skilled groupmates who give great advice. I have seen it happen for golfers and for writers. On the other hand, you could end up with a duffer who thinks he knows more about golf than he really does. He might advise you to change your grip only to make your slice worse. Let’s face it, bad advice is worse than no advice at all. The other hazard here is that your golf game could be so much better than your mates’ that they can offer no suggestions for improvement.

If you’ve been with the same group of writers without seeing much growth, you probably know what I’m talking about. As a facilitator of Roundtable critique groups, I can attest to the power of being among writers serious enough about their work to pay for a class and committed enough to meet deadlines and do the hard work of revision.

A third reason is often unspoken, but, I believe, is at the heart of many emerging writers’ reluctance to invest money in writing classes:

3. The chances of making the big time are slim. Why would I spend money when I probably won’t see tangible, financial payback?

black-and-white-people-bar-menSadly, there is much truth to this. No matter how avid a golfer you are, it isn’t likely you’ll be in the Masters’ Tournament any time soon. Still, golfers are out there every Saturday morning, doing what they love, spending a fair amount of money on it, and not feeling guilty in the least. No one is saying, “Why do you play so much golf? You’ll never make any money at it anyway.”

Why, then, do we apply the same standard to writing? Sure, from any one writing class, it will be difficult to see a direct monetary payoff on investment. But, when you “splurge” on a class, you find your tribe and deeper connections with those who share in your passion. Taken together, what you gain from classes, conferences and critique groups adds up to stronger writing and better chances of publishing, if that’s your goal.

In the end, for many people it comes down to this: How do I honor my desire to become a better writer? Do I really mean that I can’t afford a class or that I don’t feel justified in taking one? If your answer is the latter, I encourage you to reconsider. The call to write is every bit as important as other pursuits, maybe more so. Think of the words that have moved you. Consider the writers who claimed the time and used financial resources to write them for you. Imagine how your words may do the same for your readers one day. Remember, your writing will last much longer than a golf score.

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Kim-Suhr-small-150x150-2KIM SUHR is the author of Maybe I’ll Learn: Snapshots of a Novice Mom and director of Red Oak Writing. Her work has appeared at Grey Sparrow JournalFull of Crow and Foundling Review as well as earning awards from the Wisconsin Writers’ Association’s Jade Ring and Lindemann Humor Contests. You can listen to Kim read her work at WUWM 89.7 on the Lake Effect Program. She holds an MFA from the Solstice program at Pine Manor College where she was the Dennis Lehane Fellow in Fiction. To learn more about her writing, visit kimsuhr.com.

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Be sure to check out the Red Oak learning opportunities available in person at the studio or online.

Smell: The Expressway to Memory

It’s nothing new to say our sense of smell is an expressway to memory.

file000284162710One whiff of black pavement on a hot day, and I am at Six Flags in the heat of summer during the late ’70’s.

My dad worked a mile or two away, so he would drop my sisters and me off for the entire day. We’d run circles through the amusement park, make repeat rides on the Shock Wave, cool off in the Cave Ride, and go home exhausted from the heat but charged in fun with our feet covered in black tar residue.

In Naming the World, Bret Anthony Johnston writes about the power of sensory details in fiction or in nonfiction, reminding us that great details simply pull at “snatches of memory and image,” allow readers to fill in the rest:

The most affecting descriptive writing results from an author’s providing not a linguistic blueprint of a library but the raw material (the air tinged with the scent of old pages, the shafts of dusty light diffused through window slats, the whispers, like trickling water, of the librarians behind the oval reference desk) from which the reader can erect her own library.

IMG_0695Recently, Kim Suhr from Red Oak Writing visited the group of writers at Harwood Place. I love inviting visiting teachers to this group not only because they bring a fresh perspective on craft and critique but because they often bring new exercises as well.

Kim talked about sensory details and walked the writers through the beginnings of a wonderful exercise that taps into memory through smell and opens the door for story.

IMG_0696She asked the group for a list of smells that evoke strong reactions, good or bad. The exercise: choose one from the list and write on it, starting with the sentence, “I smell ________, and I am _______.”

I smell skunk, and I am on a two-lane road in the middle of Texas….

Where are you?

 

Blogging & Social Media: Twitter, Facebook, & Pinterest. Oh my!

IMG_0432Saturday’s workshop on Blogging & Social Media for Writers went well with only a few Power Point hiccups that can be blamed mostly on user error. Technology keeps us on our toes, doesn’t it? (I’m talking to you, computer gremlins, who took over my slide show and clicked NEXT when I said STAY).

Aaaanyway…. Success of a workshop greatly depends on the audience. The writers who came to the table on Saturday showed up with various levels of experience, asked great questions, and offered excellent discussion. I think everyone left with a strong understanding as to what’s out there and a drive to investigate those options more. Because when I said last week that articles about blogging and social media just keep coming, I wasn’t kidding.

I finally had a chance to read my February issue of Writer’s Digest (I know, I’m so behind…!), and blogging and social media is addressed there as well in Chuck Wendig’s “Best of Both Worlds.”

In his article, Wendig specifically focuses on the prospect of becoming a “hybrid” author, one who pursues both the traditional and self-published routes, but he touches on points we discussed in the workshop on Saturday.

1. Diversity is crucial.

Diversity means survival. That’s true in agriculture. it’s true in our stock portfolios. It’s true on our dinner plates.

And, it’s true in publishing. Survival as a writer means embracing diversity from the beginning. And that means thinking of yourself as a ‘hybrid’ author.

Again, he’s mainly talking about using both traditional and self-publishing to your advantage (and he’s persuasive in his argument as well as helpful, listing pros and cons and offering tips on how to and heeding warnings on what to avoid). But diversity is just as important when considering social media.

This doesn’t mean authors must set up and manage every single profile known in the networking world. But, it benefits an author to consider the options and decide on a select few that might help them grow a wider and more versatile audience–an audience of readers and other writers.

2. Visibility is a priority.

[You must] increase the visibility of your work. This often starts with a strong social media presence–not one devoted to marketing, but one devoted to you being the best version of yourself and engaging authentically with your potential audience.

For hybrid authors, it’s vital that all of your…platform-related efforts lead to a central online space (a professional author website or blog) that showcases your other work.

I can’t emphasize this enough. I call that central space a “home base” or an online P.O. Box per se. People will look for you online with the sole purpose of finding out more about you and your work. Make it easier for them to find you (the author) in one solid place.

This month’s issue of Writer’s Digest is available in print of course, but you can download a digital version easy. Go read “Best of Both Worlds”, and then check out Chuck Wendig’s companion piece, “Case Study: Becoming a Hybrid Author,” at Writer’s Digest online HERE.

There’s so much to learn whether you’re a new or seasoned writer. One of the greatest gifts we have is access to information and community–online and in person.

Red-Oak-Writing-Logo-1000x1000With that said, and if you’re close to Milwaukee, take a look at the next few workshops on the docket at Red Oak Writing:

  • From Blank Page to Written Words. March 22nd, 9:30-noon. Laurel Landis will help you “free your mind and focus quickly” and write, write, write.
  • Publishing Your First (or next) Collection. April 26th, 9:30-noon. Learn from Robert Vaughan who will share his experience getting “his first three projects (Microtones, Diptychs + Triptychs, and Addicts & Basements) from his office desk into the hands of publishers who all agreed to bring his work to life.”
  • Writing for Radio. May 17th, 9:30-noon. “Most writers are used to writing for the reader. [Mel Misikimen] will teach you the skills you’ll need to hone your piece for the ear….”

How do you diversify online? Better yet, how do you man-handle your Power Point into behaving?