Q&A with Amy Sue Nathan, Author of The Glass Wives

“Evie had not cornered the market on loss, and she knew it. There were many ways for a life to be rerouted.”  ~ From The Glass Wives

We make plans. We have routines. We know exactly how life is supposed to unfold. But, in an instant, those plans crumble or shift under some unpredictable force.

Glass Wives_final coverSuch is the case for Evie Glass in Amy Sue Nathan’s debut novel, The Glass Wives. When Evie’s ex-husband dies suddenly, she sets out to do whatever it takes to walk her kids through grief and get their lives back to some sort of normal.

But, normal is relative, and every opportunity Evie sees as a chance to settle back into life is interrupted by the sudden arrival of Nicole, her ex-husband’s young wife and the reason Evie’s marriage fell apart in the first place. Nicole and her young baby show up at Evie’s doorstep, sending Evie on a journey through her own grief and shaking up every idea she had of family.

I’m honored to host Amy Sue Nathan today for an author Q&A. At the end of the interview, leave your name in the comments for a chance to win a copy of The Glass Wives. Random.org will choose the winner on Tuesday, September 17th.

Welcome, Amy!

CC: In the Glass Wives, no one expects Nicole, the widow of Evie’s ex-husband, and her baby to show up on Evie’s door step looking for help. But when she does, Evie is forced to confront her prescribed ideas of “normal” and “family.” We, as humans, are so resistant to change. Was it difficult to buck any set notions of family you might have had as you began writing this story? Or, did you find, as the characters’ lives unfolded, that the story itself helped soften those perceptions?

ASN: I struggled with my own perception of family when I divorced. No matter what anyone said, actions spoke louder than words and I was treated differently by friends. So in a way, I wrote The Glass Wives as a reminder to myself, and perhaps a P.S. to others, that there are many ways to be a family and one way is not better than any other. And that single moms like being included.

CC: In the essay at the end of your book, “What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger (and Will Certainly Make Its Way into Your Novel),” you admit that the seed for The Glass Wives has roots in real life experience. Did you worry about backlash from friends or family or question loss of privacy as you got closer to publication?

ASN: A little bit. Then my daughter read the novel and was so aware of how it was fiction, that I stopped caring what anyone else thought.  She obviously realized where the idea sparked, and she playfully called me on a few things I snagged from real life.  Obviously she knew there was no one living in our basement, so the whole “this is your life” was kind of off the table.

CC: Your penned work ranges from blogs, like Writer Unboxed and Beyond the Margins, to short stories to your column on parenting, The View from Here. How did this myriad of literary direction ultimately guide you towards the publication of your debut novel?

ASN: I always wrote non-fiction until I started writing The Glass Wives. I think that everything before the novel just bolstered my confidence in my ability to get it done, no matter the outcome. I started writing again in 2006 after a long hiatus, so the fact that I was able to freelance and get published in non-fiction paved the way for the moxie it took to believe I could write a novel, find an agent, and get published. Had it not happened, my plan was to write another novel and start again. I wanted the traditional route.

CC: What are you reading these days? 

ASN: Right now I’m reading The Widow Waltz by Sally Koslow.

CC: What advice would you offer for other writers on the road to publication?

ASN: Have confidence. Seek guidance. Be humble. Have confidence. Also, give yourself a break if (and when) you need it. Of course, don’t give up. Did I mention, have confidence?

AmyNathanMediumFileAmy Sue Nathan lives and writes near Chicago, where she hosts the popular blog Women’s Fiction Writers. She has published articles in The Huffington Post, the Chicago Tribune, and The New York Times Online, among many others. Amy is the proud mom of a son and a daughter in college, and a willing servant to two rambunctious rescued dogs. Visit her website, follow her on Twitter, or subscribe to her author page on Facebook

Don’t forget to drop your name in the comments for a chance to win your own copy of The Glass Wives. Random.org will choose the winner on Tuesday, September 17th.

Q&A with Julie Kibler, Author of Calling Me Home

The heart is a demanding tenant; it frequently makes a strong argument against common sense. ~ from Calling Me Home by Julie Kibler

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A favorite quote of mine comes from E. L. Doctorow in a lecture he gave on Historical Fiction at the City University of New York (CUNY). In this lecture, he says, “What is the past if not the present and the future?” I thought of this quote as I read Julie Kibler’s debut novel and historical fiction, Calling Me Home. Kibler’s novel ties past and present together, seamlessly, within the framework of an unlikely friendship between elderly Isabelle McAllister and young Dorrie Curtis.

As Dorrie drives Isabelle from Texas to Cincinnati for a funeral, Isabelle reveals how, as a young woman, she fell in love with Robert, a young black man and the son of her family’s housekeeper. Robert is Isabelle’s first and greatest love, and in 1930’s Kentucky–in a town where blacks were not allowed after dark–they struggle against racism of the times to stay together.

Julie Kibler’s Calling Me Home has taken off with great success because, I believe, fiction based in history often unfolds into stories that could just as easily happen today. Likely, there are still families who would make it more than difficult for couples of different races to be together. After all, racism isn’t dead. It’s all over the news.

I’m honored to host Julie here for a quick Q&A, where she talks a bit about the book and the people who helped shape the story. I’m also offering a book giveaway. Leave your name in the comments for a chance to win a copy of her novel. Random.org will choose the winner on Tuesday, July 2nd.

Now welcome, Julie Kibler.

CC: In the Acknowledgements and the book’s dedication, you mention your grandmother. Can you tell us a little more about the role she played in bringing your novel to fruition?

Kibler_BPblog.102215117_stdJK: While I was growing up, my grandmother puzzled me. She wasn’t always very “grandmotherly” and seemed unhappy a large part of the time. Long after she died, my father shared with me that she had fallen in love with a black man when she was a young woman in Northern Kentucky, and that she wasn’t allowed to be with him. It seemed to provide an explanation of sorts for why she was the way she was. The way I figure it, this young man must have been her one true love, and her life must not have turned out the way she hoped it would. I thought about this a lot and for a long time, and eventually decided to write a novel—not her story, as I don’t know the specific details, but the story of a young woman in a similar time, place, and situation. I like to think she guided me in a way, almost as if she sat at my shoulder whispering to me of how it felt to be in love with someone when that relationship was forbidden for bad reasons.

CC: Much of CALLING ME HOME takes place in Shalerville, a Sundown town in which Robert and his family–and any other African-Americans–are not allowed after dark, a threat made clear by a sign posted at the edge of town. Though Shalerville may be a made up place, Sundown towns are an ugly reality of our American past. Was it difficult to research the existence of such place; did you find people hesitant to discuss them?

JK: Shalerville is made up, but it’s a composite of the small Northern Kentucky towns where my father and grandmother grew up—all sundown towns—and most like my father’s hometown. I didn’t know about sundown towns until I started questioning my dad about where he grew up. I’d visited his hometown and others over the years, and I knew them from from a child’s eye view or a more modern perspective, but I was really surprised to learn about the signs and the rules. My dad graciously shared the details he could remember of his childhood in a sundown town. While I was growing up, my parents were very open to people of all races and religions, and I think he, too, felt it was important that others knew what happened. There are few visible records, such as photographs. And yet there are still many, many towns in our country that are not open to people of other races. The signs are simply missing now. I’ve had conversations while meeting with book clubs where people relate stories of people excluded from small towns because of race in recent years.

CC: In this interview with Natalia Sylvester, you write about doubt, saying we worry too much about whether or not we should write a certain story or if we have the “right” to tell it from the perspective of a character whose experience is so different from our own. How do you know when you’ve not only conquered a bit of that doubt, but that you are indeed meant to tell the story?

JK: I think when a story haunts you so much that you can’t possibly NOT write it, when the characters are loud and clear in your mind, and in a way, demanding to be heard, you just have to sit down and write. Write it for yourself if for nobody else. And then, maybe you’ll be brave enough to show it to someone else. And when people read it and tell you it’s a story that needs to be seen, you send it out and see what happens. Sounds easy, huh? Maybe not that easy, but that’s kind of how it goes.

CC: What are you reading these days?

JK: I’m about to finish up Me Before You by JoJo Moyes. I’m really loving it, and I can tell it’s going to make me cry before it’s all over. I am not an extremely emotional person outwardly, but I have a strange love affair with books that push me there. I like movies and music and books that lead me to an emotional catharsis. I think it’s healthy to have a good cry now and then.

CC: What advice might you offer other writers on the road to publication?

JK: First things first. First, write the book. THEN worry about all the details getting it to publication. Without a finished book, your chances of publication as a debut author drop about 99.9%, by my purely unscientific calculations. And speaking of finished … I think aspiring writers too often send out things that are unpolished, and kind of … unRIPE. (Believe me, I have done it myself in the past! I speak from experience!) They haven’t done the work it takes to learn their craft. They are in a hurry to send out a rough draft the minute they type THE END. This isn’t smart. You lose a lot of chances—especially with literary agents—by doing this. Agents are looking for stories that aren’t just unique ideas, but are nearly ready to submit to publishers. As an aspiring writer, your competition is too tough to risk sending something that isn’t quite ready. Be patient with yourself and your writing, and that will more likely pay off. Try to think of writing as a marathon, not a race.

Next? Don’t assume that just because you write one book, the next one will be easy. I’ve learned that each manuscript I’ve completed has been written in a completely new way. There is no secret formula, as far as I can tell. Allow yourself to be open to new methods with each new story. This isn’t so easy for a writer with OCD tendencies, trust me, but it’s the honest truth.

Julie Kibler began writing Calling Me Home after learning a bit of family lore: As a young woman, her grandmother fell in love with a young black man in an era and locale that made the relationship impossible. When not writing, she enjoys travel, independent films, music, photography, and corralling her teenagers and rescue dogs. She lives in Arlington, Texas. Calling Me Home is her debut. Visit her website for more on the book, like her page on Facebook, or follow her on Twitter.

Don’t forget to leave your name in the comments for a chance to win a copy of Calling Me Home!

Q&A with Beth Hoffman, author of Looking for Me

I’ve come to accept that life, like the vast woodlands that surround my childhood home, is layered with mysteries. . . . We sift and search and question as we try to discover our truths and the truths of those we love, and sometimes…a mystery we never knew existed gets solved…. ~ Teddi Overman in Looking for Me

One of the reasons I love writing is because I am so introspective by nature. Sometimes, too introspective. As Teddi Overman (the main character in Beth Hoffman’s new novel, Looking for Me) says, life is full of layers, so much to be discovered and uncovered. Layers of mysteries. For me, those mysteries come clear through writing.

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For Teddi Overman, her passion for restoring old antiques drives her along her journey of self-discovery and healing. As a young woman, she leaves her family farm in Kentucky for downtown Charleston to pursue her love of antiques and restoring them back to life. While she is away, her brother Josh mysteriously disappears and throws Teddi, and her family, into a state of limbo.

It is in her travels back to Kentucky–as she sorts through the pains of her past, through her strained relations with her mother, and through artifacts discovered in the barn and at the house–that Teddi not only uncovers the truth about her brother, but also the truth of her mother’s heartache and her love.

Beth Hoffman’s second novel rings of the charm, prose, and captivating story that made her first book a New York Times bestseller. And, there’s an added layer of mysticism in the story of Josh, in the connection that he and Teddi have with each other, the woods, and wildlife around them.

Beth Hoffman first stopped by the blog when I interviewed her about her debut novel. I’m thrilled to host her again for a Q&A about Looking for MeYou could win a copy of Beth’s new novel (with thanks to her publicist): enter the giveaway by dropping your name in the comments. Random.org will choose the winner on Tuesday, May 28th–publication day!

Welcome, Beth Hoffman.

CC: In your first author interview here about your debut novel, Saving CeeCee Honeycutt, you say that the character of CeeCee came to you late one night, “fully alive and her voice…so clear,” and that, in embracing that moment, her story unfolded naturally. I’d love to hear what inspired the story of Teddi Overman and her brother, Josh.

Author-PhotoBH: After I returned home from touring with CeeCee, I didn’t know what I’d write next, and quite honestly, I was too exhausted to think about it. One day I was cleaning my writing library and began to organize old photographs. I came across an envelope containing photos of my grandparents’ farm—some dating as far back as 1883. For a long time I studied a photo of Tony and Dolly, a team of horses that were the heartbeat of the farm, and then I came across a photo of my dad standing on a hay wagon when he was just a boy.

There were probably close to a hundred photos in all, and I spent a good while reliving my childhood and yearning for those simple days on the farm. When I was about half way through the stack of photos, I grew incredibly sad. I missed the smell of freshly tilled earth and the taste of sweet corn grown on the land that had been in my family for generations. Just as I picked up a photo of my younger brother, something flashed in my periphery. I looked up as a red-tailed hawk landed in the tree outside my window. He settled on a branch and then spread his tail for a moment to reveal his full regalia. He turned his head and looked in the window, and for a moment we both quietly considered each other. And then—wham—I knew I had the soul of my story.

CC: With the success of Saving CeeCee Honeycutt, I imagine it would have been easy to write a very similar second novel. However, you traveled down a different path, still giving readers a story full of Southern charm and beautiful Beth-Hoffman style prose but weaving more mystery and darker themes throughout. Can you tell us about your experience in approaching and crafting this different kind of story?

BH: Novelists can become nearly paralyzed when facing the challenge of crafting their second book. Some end up writing a story similar to their debut, or even a sequel, while others have taken ten years or longer because they’re scared out of their minds, and with good reason. Expectations are high and the pressure to produce another winner is intense.

I had to push against the proverbial second novel anxiety and constantly tell myself: Just write what you want to write. I was adamant in my desire to create something entirely different, and when the hawk landed outside my window, I knew I had the right story. What matters to me most as I maneuver through my writing life is that I keep growing and exploring new subjects, settings, and characters.

CC: One theme that drives Looking for Me is the mistreatment of animals and human disregard for their sanctuary. Knowing this is an issue close to your heart, what would you like readers to take away from this story?

BH: I’m deeply disturbed by the cruelty inflicted on our animal friends. If I had one wish for something a reader would take away from my story, it would be that they lend their voice to help bring an end the horrors committed against animals and birds (domestic and wild) and their natural habitat.

CC: When you’re not writing, what do you love to do most in your free time?

BH: My greatest joys are simple—spending time with my husband and our four-legged children, studying nature, working in my gardens, and reading. I also enjoy antiquing with girlfriends and just recently I’ve become interested in photography.

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Before beginning her writing career, Beth Hoffman was president and co-owner of an interior design studio. An artist as well as an award-winning designer, her paintings are displayed in private and corporate collections in the United States, Canada, and the UK. Beth lives, along with her husband and two very smart cats, in a restored Queen Anne home in a quaint historic district in Northern Kentucky. Her interests include the rescue of abandoned and abused animals, nature conservancy, birding, historic preservation, and antiquing.

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Read more about Looking for Me in this great book review by Beth Fish on Beth Fish Reads. Then, visit Beth Hoffman’s website for an excerpt, as well as places to purchase the book. You can also subscribe to Beth’s author page on Facebook, or follow her on Twitter.  And, don’t forget to drop your name in the comments for a chance to win a copy of Looking for Me!